The smartest one in his circle, the center of attention. If you walk into a room and realize you’re the smartest, most capable, or highest-paid person there, congratulations: you’re in the wrong room. Most men crave that feeling. It feels good to be the go-to guy, the one giving the advice, the "alpha" of a social group that’s been stuck in the same dramas for the last five years. But here is the cold, hard truth: if you are the ceiling of your circle, that circle is your cag